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Working successfully with
Volunteers of any kind, requires an understanding of needs of
the volunteers along with a special type of patience and
tolerance. Everyone involved in Emergency communications is in
a leadership role in some form.
A leader should manage the
group activities, in a way that will best meet the purposes of
the group. Therefore, it is necessary to establish and
maintain a level of and discipline that is effective
discipline. I define effective discipline, as discipline which
brings about the desired result.
Each volunteer exhibits
different personalities. Each leader also has a different
personality. It takes time and experience for each person to
discover the style of leadership that best fits his or her
personality. We don’t all have to lead the same to be
effective leaders.
As leaders, sometimes it is
easier to respond to problems from reflex rather than from
understanding. Sometimes our responses are in defense of our
own feelings, or from misunderstanding the feelings or
intentions of others. Many actions of persons that are labeled
or perceived as misconduct are basically inappropriate
attempts to be helpful. Always assume the best, if someone
says something that might offend you if you take it the wrong
way, Don’t. It’s that simple; take it the best way it can be
taken.
I want to real quick cover a
Five-Step Approach to effective discipline.
Keeping in mind the needs
of your volunteer group, think of their behaviors or
situations that are or have been problems for you. Practice
this five-step method in analyzing the problem situations. A
good way to practice is to write responses to the five steps:
1. Describe the
Situation. Objectively summarize the circumstances and
behaviors. Try not to make judgments at this point. Merely
outline the obvious facts of the situation.
2. What Is the Problem?
Describe and label the actions or behaviors that you see as
problems. Who is involved? What are they doing exactly that
causes a problem?
3. Whose Problem Is It?
Look at the behavior. Determine for whom it is a problem for,
and why. Is it a problem for the volunteer themselves? Like
could what they are doing be dangerous to themselves, or is it
a problem for other volunteers, the reputation of the group,
the reputation of our leaders? Or is it just a problem for
you.
4. How serious is it?
Try to determine if the problem is actually serious enough
that it needs to be addressed at all. Will the disciplinary
route do more harm than good for the group as a whole? Can it
be addressed in general training later so that others in the
group who may have the same problem benefit from it? Correctly
identifying and answering the first four questions will help
tremendously in answering number five which is the key to this
whole exercise of our time tonight.
5. Possible Solutions.
Consider several possible solutions that might remedy the
problem. Will this solution in some way account for meeting
the real needs and goals of the group? If you can’t answer
this with a yes, you haven’t researched the solution for long
enough. Remember it is much easier to react to a problem than
it is to come up with real solutions to actually fix a
problem. Fixing the problem means taking the time to find a
method of discipline that will solve the problem and meet the
goals of the group.
Guidelines for solutions
• Accept each volunteer at
his/her present level of development. Everybody was new at one
time. Try to establish a friendly relationship with your net
participants. This will go a long way toward nurturing further
development and good relationships.
• Establish an atmosphere
of mutual trust, friendship and respect. Whenever possible
make your comments and behavior positive and encouraging.
• Recognize the difference
between what you do to get through a situation and what you
can do to resolve it. And realize which method is most
appropriate at the time the situation arises.
• Consider that changing
your approach to an individual, may be the most effective way
to arrive at the best solution to a problem.
• Set rules and guidelines
that are necessary for proper training and in line with the
goals and mission of the group. Try to ensure that everyone
clearly understands them and their purposes. Enforce them
calmly, firmly and impartially. Most people understand and
appreciate the need for rules. A group with no rules is the
best defined as total chaos. You can’t let some people
disregard the rules and expect others to follow them.
• Do not argue with group
members, state your position and have the history, that says I
am not going to argue about it. Do take time to carefully
explain group objectives and how they can help with a focus on
what they can do to help.
• Never speak
disrespectfully to anyone. That is a quickest way to lose the
respect of the rest of your group.
• Realize that you are
human. Be willing to acknowledge your mistakes and learn from
them. It makes it easier on those that follow your leadership
to acknowledge their mistakes.
73 KE5NZY
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